If you wish to attend...
this information is for you
Between Friends Wine Bar caters to couples (male/female couplings) and single ladies only... The only exception to this is:
MFM Night
MFM (Male-Female-Male) Nights are held semi-regularly, approximately once every four to six weeks. These nights are the only times that single men are permitted to attend.
Between Friends' MFM Nights take pride in being the only venue to properly manage the balancing act between couples, single ladies, and single men... where other venues have an open slather policy, we have set the benchmark of a ratio of one single guy per every two couples (and capped at 20 guys) which is what makes the event the most sought after ticket in town.
We have cultivated a safe and comfortable environment for couples and single ladies. To ensure it stays that way, single men must apply and are then vetted before attending one of our events. We (B.F.W.B) are not looking for 'ripped' hunky male models... What we are searching for is guys who
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can carry a conversation
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follow the rules
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are respectful
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are presentable
If you are interested in joining us, you will need to apply by following the process outlined below.
Once you have applied, we will consider your request, ensure you understand and agree to the rules, and will advise you if you have been accepted to attend.
The atmosphere at Between Friends Wine Bar is friendly, social, community-minded, and safe. Anyone can chat with anyone and we encourage people to socialise even when there is no intention to play. That is what has helped us build such a welcoming venue, and the key to keeping it that way is for you to play your part and interact with others with respect and kindness.
So you're a single man?
To apply to attend:
- Make sure you have read through other info on our website and understand what type of venue we are. We have a different culture, different rules and different standards than other swingers' events and venues.
- Send us a text to 0478 469 569 including your name, age, and a brief outline of your experience in the lifestyle
**Please note, you don't have to have had prior experience to attend. We just want to know how detailed our explanation of the rules needs to be.
- In your text, include 1-2 pics of yourself including a face and a whole body pic (fully clothed is fine). Genital pics are neither desired nor required.
- Let us know the date of the event you wish to attend. Remember, MFM Nights are the ONLY events you can apply to attend.
- We will ask more questions if necessary, and if you are successful, we will get back to you to confirm attendance.
*Please note: Owing to the large volume of requests, we are only able to reply to those who ARE successful for the upcoming event
- Once you have attended an event, your conduct on the night will determine whether you will be considered for future events. If you would like to attend again, you will not be required to resend the above information. You will just need to text us and request an invitation for the specified event.
*** Please note that if you have accepted the invitation and subsequently either cancel or do not attend, you will in all likelihood be black-listed from attending future events. These events are carefully weighted to get the right mix of couples and single ladies and men.
The rules for the venue apply to everyone,
and can be found on the 'What to Expect' page.
Please ensure you are familiar with them.
We have additional rules specifically for single men to ensure
the atmosphere remains comfortable, safe, and fun.
- You must apply and be invited to attend
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- You may only go upstairs to the playrooms in the company of other guests - single men are not allowed upstairs on their own
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- All touching must be requested and permitted
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- If you make anyone uncomfortable, you will be asked to
leave and you won't be welcome back
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The Rules
So what's next?
Keep your eye on our EVENTS page to see when the next MFM Night is coming up
Read through the website and text us if you have any questions
Follow the application process outlined above
ON THE NIGHT
- Ensure you are freshly showered, clean, well dressed, and ready to be social!
- Don't drink too much
- Remain respectful of others and the venue at all times
- Follow all instructions given to you
- Be prepared to put yourself out there, approach people to chat, enjoy the atmosphere and contribute to the positive environment
Let the adventure begin!
